Source:The New Democrat
“John F. Kennedy’s Top 10 Rules For Success:
In this video we’re going to learn how to improve our lives by analyzing John F. Kennedy’s rules
From Evan Carmichael
The brilliance of what John F. Kennedy talked about in life either as President of before his presidency, even though a lot of what he talked about had to do with public service and his own government service, can be translated into real life and how Americans live their own lives and should live their own lives. Not so much the decisions that they make in life, but how they go about making their own personal decisions.
People should not just appreciate what we have, but if anything be more focused on what we have, instead of what we don’t have yet and perhaps will never achieve, but we should always strive to be the best that we can be. To always strive for perfection knowing that we’ll never get there on that road of life, not so we chase our tales and just waste a lot of energy, but to be the best people that we can be. To be the best person, parent, uncle/aunt, sibling, friend, what we do professionally, our hobbies, etc. To be the best people that we can be in life that we possibly can.
To go to President John F. Kennedy’s inauguration: “ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.” Don’t expect people to do for you, what you can’t or are either not willing to do for yourself. You’ll accomplish a lot more in life if instead of waiting around for things in life and for people to do give you things, because you’re simply doing everything for yourself that you can and being the best and most successful person that you can possibly be. In this sense at least, JFK sounds like Ayn Rand here.
If you want the best out of life, you not only have to work for it, but you have to expect it as well. NFL teams don’t win the Super Bowl by believing they’re not even good enough to get to the Super Bowl. They know going into the playoffs, or at least late in the regular season that they have a really good team and perhaps even a great one and know they’re good enough to win the whole thing. And then set out to do that and execute their goal here. And that’s just one example with education being another one, where you can’t have great schools, teachers, and students if you don’t expect them to be great and hold them accountable when they’re not as good as they can be, or even good enough and not even passing the grade.
Freedom for all
When race, ethnicity, complexion, gender, sexuality, religion become more important in America than the person themself, you have a real problem. And no, I’m not talking about not seeing the biological characteristics about people, because we would have to be blind to miss them, but instead see people as people first and more importantly as individuals and not as a member of any group. Judge people individually and you’ll have a lot more friends, colleagues, mentors in life, then if you took the attitude you don’t like that person’s race, ethnicity, complexion, religion, etc.
Not sure I like this rule because not all differences can be resolved; hard to imagine how a Communist becomes a Libertarian and vice-versa. Or how a religious fundamentalist who perhaps even has their own definitions of what their religion is supposed to be that’s not written in any religious text, gives all that up and decides that they’re wrong and religion is actually garbage ( to keep it clean ) and all the sudden becomes an Atheist. Or how an Atheist who is so hardcore and militant with their Atheism to the point that they see anyone who is religious at all as either crazy or is a moron and perhaps even believes that religion should be outlawed, ( like a Communist ) all the sudden decides that they’re not just religious, but a religious fundamentalist. Not all differences can be resolved simply because sometimes the two sides are just too far apart.
I guess my positive note here would be to learn to agree to disagree: instead of focusing on what divides you with someone or other people, how about focusing on what you do have in common ( if anything ) instead. And similar to judging people as individuals and as nothing else, you might find that you have some things in common with that person or people and pick up new friends. And if you’re so far apart with someone or some people that what they stand for offends you, then maybe you should just move on and find new people to associate with. Which would also be better for your blood pressure with fewer intense arguments. Your heart would thank you for that.
Express your beliefs
You want people to know what you believe and who you are as a person, then speak up! Let people into your own world and bring them in to see what kind of person you are. You can’t drive a car until you start it. And you won’t make friends and obtain associates in life, if they don’t know who you are and what skills you bring to the table and what kind of person you are, what you believe, and why you believe it.
Evan Carmichael’s video is called John F. Kennedy’s Top 10 Rules For Success: I gave you six because a lot of his rules actually overlap. Like moving forward, ask not what your country can do for you, and a couple others. And as I said before a lot what Jack Kennedy talked about in life he was doing as a public servant: first as a member of Congress and then as President, but what he talked about as a public servant can be translated into real life as well. Which is one thing that I believe makes him so popular that he was not only so intelligent, but he was readable and easy to listen to. His brain was like a great book of commonsense.